I can help you.
kim is male.
That is easy to see from his behaviour on this and any other thread.
But here is a clear example to illustrate:
“Heh, Joshua stamps his pretty little foot, andrew adams whines, tempterrain picks punctuation buggers out of his nose and Robert sleeps off a comment binge. I think it’s gonna be a pretty good day” kim
To be clear, homophobic put-downs, and frequent references to snot and booze, are really not typical of female interactions; but not uncommon for adolescent boys.
Of course, it is possible that some adult males get stuck, developmentally.
cheers